You have grown up in an age group that has fairly uncomplicated, simplistic ideas about love and sexuality.
You should think quite carefully about your peers' idea of a good relationship and then decide whether that suits your personal style.
However, you may be very much in tune with the feeling or those around you in this respect. In that case you should find a partner of like views rather than someone who will slow you down with too many extraneous details or causes for self-doubt.