You know as we get older everyday, our desire in marriage tend to shift toward being happy and live a little bit longer. When we were young, our intention is to be successful in life and have our own family but as we get older, we tent to pursue happiness more than anything in the world because we want to live and witness our children being successful in their life. My love , all that we desire now in happiness in a successful marriage. My happiness is that both of us are matured and know the right thing we desire in this life.