Its the issue of some properties i have and selling them. If i do why still legally married i will have my part of it. If divorced then all goes to her. Silly but true. I dont want her in my life though i deal with it. Honestly i still dont know why i did go ahead marriage with her as it is stupid i did. Just like buy property to make money . I have that for sell to break even to not have it over my head. Lot little things but i do deal with some already. Like in March is bonus time. Very large amount. I have to take and invest it or she can take it......... i will have to settle soon what i need to let go that maybe even the girl friend 1 ... but its ok. Just stuff and not as important as every thing else.