Curiosity, say the authors, is an antidote to our all-too-common way of addressing those who disagree with us-by judging their actions and ideas, telling them what we want them to do, and blaming them for their failure to do what we'd like., say the authors, is an antidote to our all-too-common way of addressing those who disagree with us-by judging their actions and ideas, telling them what we want them to do, and blaming them for their failure to do what we'd like.