Good grooming - Comb your hair, brush your teeth, wash your
face, shave, trim your nails, and if you have hair coming out of places that it
shouldn't (ears, nose, back hair migrating over the collar of your shirt) then please
take care of it. Make sure your breath is acceptable.
Cologne & aftershave - You should never use too much
fragrance. The rule of thumb for fragrance is that you should have to be intimately
close to smell it. So if someone smells your cologne and they're not hugging you,
kissing you, dancing with you, or otherwise very close to you, you have put on too
much. This applies to ladies as well. Unless you live in a century without indoor
plumbing, you should not use fragrance to mask body odor. If you have a lot
of body odor, you need a shower.