At first,you (the female) feel a pressure down there,throughout your genitalia,and almost like pumping...You feel the vulvas and everything engorge,they become...i dunno....again,tense.At first,the clit enlarges in size a bit,because it becomes erect,and then feel the vaginal secretion (wet) and as if the lips and entrance to the vagina opens....Hmmmm....and then....until getting to the point of climax,the clit actually retracts back inside,it hides,and that's when the orgasm reaches.