NAMES, NAMING
Traditionally, Vietnamese people list their family name first, then their middle name, with their first (given) name listed as last. Family members use different given names (first names aren't passed down), and the name reflects some meaning. Most names can be used for either gender. Many in the US have adopted western customs of naming.
DISPLAYS OF RESPECT
• To avoid confrontation or disrespect, many will not vocalize disagreement. Instead of relaying negative communication, people may not answer a question.
• It is disrespectful to touch another person's head. Only an elder can touch the head of a child.
• When getting a praise, people usually smile instead of saying "thank you". A smile is like a silent "thank you". Most people are very modest and deflect praise.
• Insults to elders or ancestors are very serious and often lead to severed social ties