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1. No Photo - No Response - Automatic "BLOCK"
2. No job or other visible means of support, move on to the next profile...Not going to be your sugar daddy or ATM....
3. Smoke - No Response, BLOCK
4. Have young children still living at home- Probably, No Response...
For those who do not indicate that you have children in your profile but do, yet profess to want someone honest, think about the lie you tell by not saying you have kids.
5. Under 30 - Probably, No Response
6. Age range listed, that is many years below my age.. Automatic "BLOCK".
A second try...Since joining this site I have received many "Messages" and "Interest". I try to answer all the "messages", but after looking at their profiles and I can see that there is no attraction/connection I generally delete them and block their profile. If I read your profile and see that you are looking for someone much younger than me, I generally block your profile, only so it does not come up in any future searches. Don't take offense, it's just a fact of life, looks and appearance do count and / or I respect your age limit desires. This is not saying that you are not a nice person, it is saying I would not be interested in you and I respect your wishes. I see more and more ladies saying this, "don't just hit the interest button, if you are interested then write something." I feel the same, otherwise the "interest" will normally be deleted.
If you write to me, please say more than just "Hello", "Hi", "How are you" etc., as that will be exactly what you get back, if I so decide to answer and not "delete" it. Write at least a complete sentence and I do understand that many of you do not know how to construct a complete sentence, which is grammatically correct, heck I do that a lot and English is my language. At least attempt say something of substance.
Additionally, if you are not interested enough to spend some time getting to know each other through messages,, please don't waste yours or my time. To develop any kind of relationship takes time.
I can generally pick out those who are scammers, there are many on here, or game players, very quickly. Sometimes. I play along with them just to see how far they will go, to intentionally lead them on. Sometimes I don't and hit the "delete" and "block" keys. Just depends on how I feel and how much time I have. I enjoy playing their game with them, and just when they think they have set the hook, I break the I have never been taken in and many have tried. My suggestion to those who want to try is, don't waste your time, as you are generally very easy to spot. BTW - I have one rule which I have never broken, unless I personally and physically meet you, I do not pass money.
I have looked at many profile and viewed many photos and have found there are some very lovely and beautiful looking ladies on this site. Just because I look at a profile doesn't necessarily mean that I am interested in them. The only way to know the age range that you are interested in is to look at your profile. If you are looking for someone under my age, I will generally pass you by and not bother you. Some profiles are very well written and enjoyable to read, while others contain very little, if any, information. Some are completely written in Thai, which I do not read, yet after I look at the profile I get an e-mail from the person. Sorry if you don't get a response. If you want one, please write the profile in English also. I know some ladies are interested in both Thai and English speaking men and some are only interested in one or the other; however, if you are interested in English speaking men then write your profile info in English.
Yes I have. However, I only give the address out to those who I am interested in and then only after we have e-mailed and I feel comfortable with them. Even after we talk and I get to know them my interest may wane. We all have qualities and problems that only surface after getting to know one another. Some problems we can deal with and some are deal breakers and we need to move on. If you are the jealous type, pass me by. Shows insecurity and lack of trust.
Ladies, if you think that you must post photos showing the biggest part of your breast or other part of your body, normally fully covered and only exposed in the bedroom, bathroom or during intimacy with you B/F, then don't get mad and get your feeling hurt, when you get derogatory comments and e-mails from those looking for a quick score. After all, you invited it by posting the photos and, thereby, also lowering your standards in doing so. Don't ask for respect when you don't respect yourself and actually show some dis-respect towards yourself by posting semi-nude photos. Save that until you meat you prospective B/F. Why take away all the allure and imagination.
Life is too short to play games. After reading many profiles on here seems there are many who do just that. Not interested.
I don't smoke, but do drink a beer now and then. Don't gamble, take drugs and don't butterfly. Would not be interested in anyone who smokes, drinks excessively, gambles, takes drugs or does not take care of themselves ie. is overweight. I try to go to the gym at least 3 times a week to stay fit. I am in good physical condition, have no known illnesses and do not take any medications. My dad is 94 and still alive.
I stay active and am looking for someone who does the same. I also enjoy kicking back and watching a good movie now and then with a beer and some pop corn. I also cook and can still make a pretty good cow-pot. We just don't have the banana leaves to put it in...LOL
I was in Thailand in 69-70, at Korat and BKK. Am planning on visiting again, probably next summer. Would like to meet a lady from BKK to accompany me. If things work out and we get along, maybe more. I use to speak a little Thai but, over the years, have forgotten most of it.
I have no plans of moving to Thailand so the lady I meet would need to be willing to relocate to the US. Having your passport and visa ready would be a good thing. If you are not willing to re-locate then I doubt we would connect so don't waste time writing. Just being honest.
BTW - age to me is a number. I have met those who are 60 and seem to be 30; however, I have also met those who are 30 and seem to be 60...Go figure. Stay active and that won't happen. I am not interested in raising a child, so if you have children still living at home we will probably not be a match. My bottom about 30 years old or those with no children or children raised and gone from home.
I have been told there is a Thai custom of children supporting their parents. Remember, it is a custom, not a law. It is not an American custom and I would not be interested in someone who is doing so.
Good luck in your search and hopefully you will find exactly what you are looking for. Have a great day.