You have to HONOR your feelings at all times and the feelings of others, you have to DO in balance and until you can DO this, you'll go back & forth between aspects, many of them... you'll play out every role, you'll feel like you've lost it many times until you get the hang of how all of this goes.....
Now, honor is different here. Standing in honor to all as one is very different than honoring others, for the human did not honor itself equally/first too. Some never honored others, only cared about themselves, some had honor, but forgot about themselves.... this is HONOR TO ALL..... according to what is always "right" inside..... Which is often harder than just going small and being quiet.... Sometimes you have to STAND UP and speak from love for yourself to re-balance all of the imbalances of all of your existences where you did not.