Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot I said that to you already. Oh well.
Yes, I don't blame you for being scared of them. It doesn't seem like this is a very good site for women to meet good men. I'm glad you are very careful.
About where to find Miss Right? Honestly . . . I don't know. I thought I'd try this site just to try something different. I really don't know if this is the best because of the distance. Even if I meet the right girl, how do I make that happen when I am taking care of three kids? I don't know. I like the Thai women though. They seem to be very loyal, although there are many that just want a rich man to take care of them. That's not love.