I did not read ONE book on child rearing. Had NO parents myself, yet raised three beautiful happy boys. I had all 3 of my boys by the age of 21. We have a social...and a generational breakdown in our country. I escaped that breakdown by being isolated from society. There is nothing confounding about loving a child. Unless you are a parent who lets the world tell you how to raise your kids..rather than raising them yourself..in unconditional love. If a ted invited woman has issues being a mom...yet someone with no college education puts her three boys thru college...I don't know what to say.