well i am a research specialist and i am currently in times and i cant afford my heart to be played with. i would love us to start as friend and see where it leads to. i want a long lasting relationship that's gonna lead to marriage and i hope to find a woman who is gonna love me for who i am, i mean a woman who is gonna love brandons and me cos he is all i care for and i also want my woman to care for him as she will do for me. so how do u feel marrying a man with a kids and tell me what u ...