my mother who is intelligent and is good-looking. She was a stay-at-home mother and my father was a lawyer. I was raised to think that women should take care of their children if they were going to have children at all, not pay strangers to do it for them. She taught me women should know how to cook and have a responsibility to make their husbands happy, and that divorce should NEVER be an option when you have kids, unless you are married to an abuser. She also taught me that women and men are just as smart as each other, but women are more maternal while young men think with their dicks. BTW, ours was an athiest household.