I am blond haired, blued American that lives and works in Thailand.. I am looking for that ultimate woman that stops me short of breath. No need for people that are already hurt, angry, or simply hate (men) for what has happened in their past. It is enough to go through an airport with luggage, but no need to drag it around with you for life...Be positive when you do online dating, as like the ad in the New York City Lotto says " Hey, you never know"...also, just because I am a "faring" does not mean that I am an open wallet or ATM. If a man cares that much about his woman, then she should never ask or require anything....Love will eventually provide everything.