people don’t like the outcomes they are experiencing, most choose to blame the event (E) for their lack of results (O).
The deciding factor in success is not the external conditions and circumstances. It's how you choose to respond (R).
Successful people take a different approach to events. They simply change their responses (R) to the events (E) until they get the outcomes (O) they want.
You can change your thinking, change your communication, change the pictures you hold in your head (your images of the world) and you can change your behavior (the things you do). That's all you really have control over anyway.