Your Mother in law & I have some problems to work out. I know she may not f ment to hurt me but? She said some things that were very hurtful for me. We are trying t work them out. I love her very much. But, it seems in your culture? People worry more abut what others may think of them rather than the feelings of love between two people.
Whether it be Employers, family or friends, or casual acquaintances from facebook? Their Opinions I feel should have no place as to interfere with the feelings of love between a man & a Woman as t what they do or don't do with each other. Whether a couple shows affection publicly or not is none of their business. But? Your Mother in law is all too worried about what people may say. I on the other hand am very proud of your mother & our relationship. I WANT the whole world t know we have found love & are happy. But she wants t wait until AFTER we are married to say anything to anyone. I have a a problem with that. A legal piece f paper is not what truly shows that two people love each other. How they TREAT each other in their day to day dealings with each thier BOTH publicly & privately is how you show that. Two people should stay together because there's love in their hearts .... NOT because some legal document tells them they have to. But? If she is scared right from the start of what people say? That indicates t me that she does not have faith in us. And if SHE doesn't have faith in us? How am I supposed t feel?
I pray we get through this. But? knowing she feels this way? That hurt me. That hurt me bad.
Have a good evening/day dear