Elegance is never a slave to rules and conventions
The last secret for being a true lady is to always be attuned to the situation at hand. There’s no need to wear a tight-fitting jacket to a picnic. Nor do you have to put on high heels for a stroll or sweat it out in a strict suit on a hot summer day.
Don’t believe those who call perfectionism and classicality the keys to success and see wearing loose hair as a crime against good looks.
Listen to your intuition. If you feel that your hair looks great in its natural state — go loose-haired. Uncomfortable high heels can always be abandoned in favor of nice flats or slip-ons. And, whatever you do, don’t imprison your individuality inside some meticulous black and white classical dress!