Too often I meet girl who wants guy to be there for her when sad or down but not do same the times I am... I wish could change that I always do what I can to be there for others But rarely get in return My ex in USA she had to go through a lot, her mom... Shot herself... And she was very upset for a long time, I always stood by her, sometimes she acted like she hated me but I understood... But she didn't seem to want or know how to be there when I was going through my own issues much later on... Same with Thai gf here before, always there for her but when stressed out she would ignore it... Honesty and respecting each other are big to me