Noona,
I have been thinking about this a lot too. Thank you for writing back to me.
I think that it is very hard for two people who live in different countries to have a good relationship. I have tried to do long distance serious relationships before because I have always travelled so much for work, but it is never very good in the end. What is good about two people is being together, not being apart.
I appreciate who you are very much. I think that you are a very kind and honest and sincere person, not at all complicated. And I understand that you have had some hard things in your life, and now you are trying to make a good life for yourself. I respect this very much. I respect you very much, which is why i wrote you the last letter that I did, asking you your thoughts. Because I would never want to break your heart. I am not perfect, but I am a decent enough person to see when someone is very sincere, and to respect that.
I can’t move to Bangkok anytime soon. I am here in Bangladesh to do a job that I like a lot, and my job is important to me. I don’t have a job in Bangkok. Like I said before, I could probably only come visit you in Bangkok for one weekend every month or two; the tickets are very expensive and I don’t get a lot of holiday time. Thinking about the future, I don’t really know right now. We don’t know each other that well, we are still learning, so it is too soon to say I think. But even now, I don’t think that a weekend every month or two would be enough. I don’t want to do a serious long distance relationship. If I have a serious relationship with someone I would want them to be with me all the time. I think that if you were a girl who just wanted to have some fun with me sometimes when we could see each other, maybe that would be ok every now and then, but you are not that kind of girl.
I hope you can understand that I am trying to be honest with you because I think that you are a very good person. I want to see you, but I don’t want to come to Bangkok and maybe make you like me more, and then not have things work. I think it is better if now we just say that it is too bad we live in different countries, let things go, and not put ourselves in a position where we end up with broken hearts because we like each other more and more but are always far apart.
I don’t know if you will want to talk to me anymore after I write this. I hope that you are not angry with me, that you can see that I am being honest and not trying to just tell you stories.
Kevin
On Dec 20, 2015, at 8:47 PM, หนูนา vitaeast wrote:
Thank you to asking me that. yes that’s not easy question and I think over about that a lot . I don’t think I understand your letter 100% but I think I can guess what do you want to ask me. I don’t know how to tell you too, However I will writing my thinking. Now Im interesting in you more than friendly and I also think if we keep chatting I will like you more more and more.
Sometime I wish you could come to work in Bangkok or have a long holiday to visit me like you told me before but it would be ok if you could come to see me for a few days every month.
do you mind if I ask you again same as before, what do you think about me? Do you have me of the future in your plans or you just want come to see me sometime. Im sorry to ask you like this but I think I should do that because I don’t know how long will you be in Bangladesh, I don’t know you could come to see me for a long time maybe one month, two months, one year or two years. If you move to Canada what about me? I don’t think you could come to see me every months if you be in Canada. I worry about in the future if one day you couldn’t come to see me I don’t think I would be happy.
If we are only friendly, sure you can come to see me anytime as you need and I would like to see you too, but now we aren’t. Im not sure we will be compatible in the future or not , but I hope so
I like general women they want to see someone who is a good man, love and respect me, we can take care each other , have cute baby and worm family.
Now I can't deny that I'm looking for a nice boyfriend, sometime I seem complicated, I just don't want to broken heart again. that why I'm being single now.
Please tell me the truth what do you think now