Ok... whether you like my answer or not I will tell you truth
I went to the Beijing Olympics 8 years ago and she did not want to go and I went by myself, our relationship was not good at the time and I met a girl who was a translator, we had an affair for 3 weeks. When I got back to Australia my wife asked me if I had been with someone and I told her the truth. She kicked me out of the house. After 6 months she asked me to come back so I did. But she never forgave me and after another year and much fighting over the same thing she kicked me out again. About 8 months later told me she was unhappy and asked me home again. Life from there was almost impossible with her and I living separate lives but together mainly for financial reasons for the business. We both stayed in separate bedrooms. This year things still bad and she went to live in Korea and I stayed in family home by myself and my dog. I decided to get myself an apartment and move there 3 months ago and move in about 2 months. My wife has come to Australia and lives with my daughter in her apartment. Legally we are separated not legally divorced as yet. In Australia you have to be formally living apart for more than a year and half so we are now splitting our assets by agreement and will get formal divorce about march next year. I am trying to keep a friendly relationship because of our children and the long time together but we both agree we can never never be together in marriage. Hope you understand what I write I sent you an email when we were staying at the hotel and said I find having a relationship with no passion too difficult this is why. There has been no passion in my life for too long already and if you did not want that I would have just gone home. We made love together and I could feel in your body as we lay together that you did want me and I thought I want this to get better and better in time and if you still want me I believe it will