(1) Upon a further examination, the mother's
constant pressure on the daughter was beginning to wear on her. (2) Jing-mei's mother
would consistently give her daughter tests and the expectations to succeed were high. (3)
As the daughter states right after she failed to perform well at the climatic piano recital (4)
“After seeing my mother's disappointed face once again, something inside me began to die.
I hated the tests, the raised hopes and failed expectations” (Tan 1152). (5,6) After seeing
the dissatisfaction from her mother's face, the tests and hopes for success, began to eat
away at her. It began to tear at the daughter's emotional state. (7) The consistent
disappointment pushed the daughter to the point where she would not become someone
she is not.