In a nutshell. I'm really single. like as in not here pretending i am. not that i'm anyone to judge. but just saying. do back to the in a nutshell. i have 4 kids. yes amazing offspring that i'm actively involved in raising. so if still interested in knowing more. ask away. no shame here. made my fair shared of mistake. still no closer to knowing what but definitely have found out the hard way what i don't