I would like to have the custody with some flexibility to allow for both of our schedules but some stability for the boys. There is no point in the boys staying in an empty house with a nanny on a night that we have custody but cannot be home. I also know Karen previously chose to give me Wednesday and Thursday knowing that she had events those evenings on a consistent basis. I too have the same issues. There should also be an allowance for travel. If Karen is in the US, there is no point in them sleeping in her apartment and the same goes for me. I want what’s best for the boys.