one's character and values are shaped by the environment and the people around us,including our parents,siblings,friends and others. however,our'มารยาท enables us to assess situations and allows us to make choices based on what has been taught by อัลลอฮ s.w.t. and his messengers. therefore,it is wrong for someone who does evil to put the blame on someone else when in fact,อัลลอฮ s.w.t has given all humans the faculty of,มารยาท to think and analyse.
ฮัลลอฮ ซ.บ mentioned in al-quran
'verily, we create man in the best conformation; and thereafter we reduce him to the lowest of low except only such as attain to faith and do good works:and theirs shall be a reward unending!' al-tiin 4-6