One of the points of discussion is what to do if the engagement does not result in marriage. Would the gifts be returned to the respective parties? Traditionally, if the groom's side breaks it up, the bride may retain the dowry and hantaran. If it is the bride's party that breaks off the engagement, they may have to compensate twice the value of the dowry. After the details have been agreed upon, an elderly lady from the groom's party places a ring on the bride's finger. If the groom is wealthy. the ring may be accompanied by a watch or jewellery. Thereafter, the exchange of presents takes place and a supplication is made as a form of thanksgiving The engagement ceremony is held to unite the bride and groom. The gifts include cakes, sweets and essentials such as clothing. A small proportion of the dowry is crafted as a gift that can be used for display. A period of engagement can vary from six months to three years. During this time, preparations of the wedding and for the future are made.