So a few months ago, a broke expat friend of my went on a date with a Thai girl. He was in a pretty bad state financially, and should have been booking his flight home rather than going on dates with no money, but there’s a lot of fucked up farangs here.
Anyway, he took the girl to some 200 baht buffet. Come bill time (420 baht), he totally ignored it and made the girl feel so uncomfortable, that she eventually paid up. The girl didn’t want to pay nor did she expect to pay, as my friend asked her on the date and she agreed.
It just was out of sheer embarrassment of waiting 15 minutes for my broke friend to pay up, that she paid after constant nagging from staff.
I know, I need to find new friends.
Later that day, my friend messaged me saying the date went well and she paid for everything.
Fast forward 12 or so hours and one of my Line chat groups was going off. It turned out that Thai girls have private groups on Facebook (you won’t be able to join), where they discuss farang guys, upload pictures, show off their boyfriends and bad experiences.
There are a number of groups, most are friendly but a few do go full retard and hate on us pretty hard.
After this Thai girl’s bad experience, she uploaded a picture of my friend that she took at dinner into the Facebook group, and told over 10,000 girls in Bangkok what happened. My friend’s girlfriend was in that group and she sent him the print screens of the Facebook update.
I won’t be posting screen shots of the post, but it received hundreds of likes huge amounts of engagement from girls in the group.
They outed his name, where he was from and what he did.
Over the next few days, as my friend was talking to other girls, a few happened to be in the group and told him where to go:
thai girls
What goes on inside These Thai girl groups?
These Facebook groups are like online forums. Girls mostly post pictures of farang models, dates they’ve been on, boyfriends and other relationship style posts. Most are either showing off their boyfriend, asking for relationship advice, sometimes they ask if anybody has dated a guy and upload their photo into the group.
Every now and then, they post up a farang guy who has done something bad (cheated on girl, used her etc) and call him out and make others girls aware. But usually it’s fun stories and good experiences like the one below:
picture 1
If you are the kind of guy who treats Thai girls unfairly or with no respect, I’d be careful because it may end up biting you in the ass. You won’t be able to find these groups as they are mostly hidden and in Thai.
If you have a Thai girlfriend, you can get her to type keywords into the Facebook search. I have links to the groups, but see no value in posting them here.
I mean even if you do find them, they will not accept you into the group.
My opinion on these groups
There are a lot of bad dudes out here who have no respect for Thai girls, while I’m not supporting the white knights of Bangkok, I think their group is kind of cool and valid. There is tons of information for us guys about Thai girls, it’s only fair that they have their own resource, right?
picture 2
It seems Thai girls are getting smarter. They are leveraging social networking to stop western farangs walking all over them.
They appear to be advancing in intelligence as well. They found out that farangs are now creating fake Thai girl profiles to join their groups. As a result, they have made the joining process of each group pretty strict.
I just thought I would let my readers know in case you’re one of the small percentage of guys who treats Thai girls badly. If you’re, you may want to be careful on how you interact with girls in the future.
I’ve been in one group for over a month, these girls rarely post bad things unless the guy has been a total dick and done something outrageous. Most of the time it’s good stories and dating advice.
There was another group called ‘Toxic farang’ which was a bit more mental but it appears Facebook has deleted that group for some reason.
These groups are quite large but on the scale of things very small (oxymoron). There are over 12 million people in Bangkok, and the average group contains around 5,00-20,000 girls, less than 1%.
Did you know about these groups, and what do you think?
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Posted by: Harvie // Life in Bangkok // July 13, 2015
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17 thoughts on “Thai Girl Vigilante Facebook Groups Target Farang Men”
jspill
13 July, 2015 at 4:43 pm
Saw a pic friend in one group, has a wife and kid but still meets dating site sloots. Girl posting his pic was asking if anyone else has talked to him. A girl replies yeah he tried to talk to me too, then I saw him walking one day with his wife and daughter to I didn’t meet up with him…
Then she ends ‘but nice guy na’
#thaigirls
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Pat
13 July, 2015 at 4:47 pm
Some of those Thai girls bring it on themselves, opening their legs first, then expecting the flood of gifts and cash from mr farang. When it doesn’t happen and they realised they’ve been played, they get all hollier than thou and play the innocent card….”poor little innocent thai girl…..exploited by stupid horrible farang”
I’m not talking bargirls either. Normal girls….(hate that term)
If they moved with the times and changed their attitude and thinking away from their ”Mr farang walking ATM” mentality then they may do better. Thai girls are pretty bad at lying, tending to assume those they lie to are as stupid as they are.
Which is why I’ve the utmost respect for prostitutes. You pay, you get. No wining dining guesssing wondering acting pretending etc etc
Playing the innocent victim after the event is a favourite practice of certain females in Thailand, the girl will still play this role despite her having a Thai BF even when she dates a farang. I’ve seen it, done it, played this field, am a veteran, even got several t-shirts to show for it. When I can be arsed to iron one I’ll post up a pic.
The best girls are the ones who have moved with the times and the west. They are playing the field and enjoying it. They don’t expect to be wined, dined or have all bills paid for them. They have a few guys on the go. Good for them. Life’s there to be having fun and they’re doing it, despite the condemnation from the ”traditional” (or laughable) Thai so-called way of doing things.
So Thai girls, move with the times, forget all the hang ups, open your eyes (if you can steer them away from your smart phone that is)
Although I will say, many farangs are just stupid anyway. They will always be.
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nRon
13 July, 2015 at 10:20 pm
What comes around goes around! Kinda ;)
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MatKong
14 July, 2015 at 4:22 am
haha your tightwad friend lost much more by saving 420b that night, he lost face and now he will have to pay 2000b if he wants to get laid!
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Pat
14 July, 2015 at 6:31 am
On the flip side…..
There does seem to be a competitive streak amongst some expats (usually the lower end ones, ”teachers” especially) who want to prove to eachother that their ‘GF’ is a normal Thai girl and not some cash hungry rip off hoe. In many cases it can backfire.
I’m not surprised that many farangs are stereotyped as whore chasers, because in many cases they are, that’s what attracted them to Thailand in the first place, arrive on two week holiday, become hansum man, fall in love with bar whore then lose all common sense and become determined to live that life whatever the cost.
Most masquerade as english teachers and pretend they are qualified, earning paltry salaries of 40k a month, merely just getting by but putting up this charade of success to other farangs. When they do attempt to chase some non-bargirl skirt they come unstuck, they don’t understand why this normal girl isn’t like the whores they were accustomed to leading to this backlash.
Both sides (the complaining girls and idiot farangs) are as bad as eachother, and compromise will never be reached.
Makes funny reading though.
What would be the scenario if all male english teachers in Thailand were genuine qualified, degree educated experienced (back in their home countries) teachers with proper credentials, rather than the usual bunch of fiction masquerading as their resumes ?
Would we really have a better class of expat? Would we still have this bunch of bill-dodging cheap charlies on the prowl?
PS. I’ve seen the website where many desperate unqualified fools post up their resumes, details and ambitions, and I’ve never read as much bollocks since I attempted to read Harry Potter
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Harvie
14 July, 2015 at 10:57 am
I get that a lot, guys telling me their girlfriend is not like the others or she’s way better. Must be some sort of inferiority complex.
Even if teachers were super qualified and came to Thailand, I doubt we’d have better expats here. Why? Well read your 2nd paragraph to find the answer lol.
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Danny
14 July, 2015 at 8:28 pm
Great story, and its good to see Thai girls get a little smarter about cross-cultural dating. Its hard to believe that a guy from a wealthy, first-world country would use a girl from a developing country for a free meal ticket, but hey Thailand is a magnet for scumbags. Its a good sign that girls are taking steps to protect themselves from scum, while still maintaining a positi