Dec 9 2011: Sometimes its not up to you. You just have to be sure you are making everything with a good heart, good intentions, if you see that you are about to make an action or say something which has a negative background or feeling (like envy, anger, etc.), retain it for the sake of your partner. That is all you can do on your behalf of the relationship. If the other person rejects you because, for example, he perceived a choice you made, which as I said was done with deep root good intentions, as a bad choice there is nothing you can do. Truth and good heart will bring you good and lasting friends.