Spike. No apologist never tried killing her twice or the world. Never cheated while mom in the hospital. Never left her, got a soul for her and died for her. Grew and matured together. Loved her without soul as well loved her family as well. Read the comics for more reasons. Plus he never once blamed or apologized for his actions he loved her for her. If you truly live someone you grow together so sorry I'm a spuffy fan no apologies