those things may not be bought by money, but those things need money to be achieved. like respect, how can you respect someone who can’t buy their own clothes/houses. how do you respect a naked dirty guy on the street? and well-adjusted kid will surely need good education, nutrition/food, and things to fulfill all what they need to do and that all needs money.
i know that you want us not to be materialistic, but we just can’t deny that money is very important aspect of our life.