Abstinence
Abstinence
Most people, at some point in their life, refrain from alcohol. On occasions, refusal of alcohol is for perfectly clear medical reasons (booze may clash with prescription drugs, or an operation is impending, or the person is pregnant). At other times, it is more clearly a case of self-imposed abstinence: this can range from a few weeks 'clean-living' to a committed campaign to kick the drink habit altogether.
Whatever the reason, a decision has been made, and must be respected. As a host, you may be confronted with a refusal of drink from your guest. Never question why this is happening; never cajole, or plead, or tease. You may be understandably disappointed that they're not joining in the party fun, but you must never let this show - meet their refusal with good grace, and offer a tempting range of alcohol-free drinks.