Even if, somewhere down the line, the two of you decide that things aren’t working out and part ways…it will be better to know that you treated each other as best you could, with no hard feelings or grudges to hold onto. On the other hand, treating your lover as a best friend may very well avert problems and fights ahead of time. I believe this philosophy is helpful and can even change your mindset towards your significant other, leading to deeper appreciation and a balanced perspective on what truly matters and what you can let go. Next time you feel frustrated or annoyed, try it out. It can’t hurt!