First, you got to ask yourself if your parents have got a proper reason to worry about it. As long as you’re thinkin’ about what you’re doin’ and makin’ sure you’re safe, then I reckon you can be with anyone you like. But when you’re talkin’ about age differences, you got to be sure both of you are old enough to be sure of what you’re doin’ and to understand all the implications of it. It’s more important to make sure both of you are safe and know what you’re doin’ than to jump into things too quickly.
If you’re both old enough to know what you’re doin’, though, then you can try explainin’ to your parents exactly what your relationship means to you. Introduce ‘em to your man and let ‘em know why you’re together, and let him explain as well so they know you’re both on the same page. If they got questions or they’re worried about anything, talk it over with ‘em and work out whether or not it’s something you got to think about or something you’ve already sorted.
Havin’ an unusual relationship ain’t an easy thing to bring up with other people, but if you both understand what you’re doin’ and you’re both safe, then it ain’t worth throwin’ away just because someone else doesn’t understand. The hardest part, I reckon, is workin’ out which parts you really got to think about and which parts are just people judgin’ you because you aren’t what they expect.
Good luck with your parents and with showin’ ‘em what you and your man mean to one another!
First, you got to ask yourself if your parents have got a proper reason to worry about it. As long as you’re thinkin’ about what you’re doin’ and makin’ sure you’re safe, then I reckon you can be with anyone you like. But when you’re talkin’ about age differences, you got to be sure both of you are old enough to be sure of what you’re doin’ and to understand all the implications of it. It’s more important to make sure both of you are safe and know what you’re doin’ than to jump into things too quickly.
If you’re both old enough to know what you’re doin’, though, then you can try explainin’ to your parents exactly what your relationship means to you. Introduce ‘em to your man and let ‘em know why you’re together, and let him explain as well so they know you’re both on the same page. If they got questions or they’re worried about anything, talk it over with ‘em and work out whether or not it’s something you got to think about or something you’ve already sorted.
Havin’ an unusual relationship ain’t an easy thing to bring up with other people, but if you both understand what you’re doin’ and you’re both safe, then it ain’t worth throwin’ away just because someone else doesn’t understand. The hardest part, I reckon, is workin’ out which parts you really got to think about and which parts are just people judgin’ you because you aren’t what they expect.
Good luck with your parents and with showin’ ‘em what you and your man mean to one another!
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