One thing I want to encourage you to do right now. Stop saying. “I feel that….” or “I feel like….” Those are some of the more misleading statements in the English language. Use the word “feel” for a feeling and use the word “think” for a thought.
“I feel that you are cheating me.” Is a nice sentence, but critically defective. The feeling is left out of it. The sentence should read “I feel angry when I think you are cheating me.” Now the “feeling” has been put back in. And notice that the feeling, that was left out, is pretty important.
Learn to use “thought words” and separate them from “feeling words”. I have found this to significantly clear up a great amount of confusion.
Thought words: think, believe, recall, imagine, guess, have a hunch. Most thought words are followed by “that”. “I believe that you are….”
I think that if you hear the word “feel” followed by “that”, we are not into talking about “feelings.”
One thing I want to encourage you to do right now. Stop saying. “I feel that….” or “I feel like….” Those are some of the more misleading statements in the English language. Use the word “feel” for a feeling and use the word “think” for a thought.“I feel that you are cheating me.” Is a nice sentence, but critically defective. The feeling is left out of it. The sentence should read “I feel angry when I think you are cheating me.” Now the “feeling” has been put back in. And notice that the feeling, that was left out, is pretty important. Learn to use “thought words” and separate them from “feeling words”. I have found this to significantly clear up a great amount of confusion.Thought words: think, believe, recall, imagine, guess, have a hunch. Most thought words are followed by “that”. “I believe that you are….”I think that if you hear the word “feel” followed by “that”, we are not into talking about “feelings.”
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