It's not that hard when people break up still I know it's "easier said than done" When two people can't figure out the way to go back to their "happy land", it's over. Move on. Don't blame each other. We, human beings, have limited patience and once we use it up, we damn need to put it down. Like relationship, once you guys can't get along, stop pretending like we could work it out or something cos we couldn't. Just get over it and move on, stay optimistic as much as you can. I know you're gonna have a hard time getting through it but hang in there. It's gone real soon, believe me.