thank u so much kuda! i really want to see a bit of switcharoo, phun always making the first move and seducing noh like a romance novel hero is getting tiring. the trailer for the next episode looks promising, with noh actually being pro-active and getting some from phun. i hope the scene proceeds with noh taking the reigns and they don’t fall back into that same pattern of noh being a protesting, submissive lover to phun.
Agreed. But what I got from the novel is that Noh is only submissive because he wants the same thing. He likes Phun taking the lead and only protest to put up a good front. Inside as we read his thoughts he wants Phun as much as Phun wants him. I too would love to see Noh make the first move.
I like the way you put that because submissive does not necessarily mean the person is weaker, just that they get pleasure out of seeing the partner have pleasure first…..or something like that.. yes?
Being submissive is not being weaker. Noh obviously has his strengths and generally does not do anything he does not want to do. He puts up a fight so not to appear weak or easy to control. Sometimes he gives in because he is tired or the request is not that big of deal. But he rarely does anything he doesn’t want to do or doesn’t think needs to be done. We all give into our friends sometimes. Especially those we love. He does this with Earn and the dog tag because he didn’t want to make a scene. But he really did like the dogtag and was happy when Phun brought him one since Phun had taken the other one back to Earn. He does this with Yuri all the time. He lets her call the shots for when they meet what they do etc. But he has a line he will not cross because he does not want to. He lets his friends joke about him and Phun until they cross the line.
Yes, I understand that about Noh’s character but I was actually asking about submissives in general
Oh I see. You can be submissive and retain power and self esteem. Even in the bedroom. Sometimes letting someone else get their way shows you are self assured besides you are enjoying it as well. It takes a great deal of strength at times to let someone else get their way until you realize you are bringing them joy, and joy to yourself as well.
thank u so much kuda! i really want to see a bit of switcharoo, phun always making the first move and seducing noh like a romance novel hero is getting tiring. the trailer for the next episode looks promising, with noh actually being pro-active and getting some from phun. i hope the scene proceeds with noh taking the reigns and they don’t fall back into that same pattern of noh being a protesting, submissive lover to phun.Agreed. But what I got from the novel is that Noh is only submissive because he wants the same thing. He likes Phun taking the lead and only protest to put up a good front. Inside as we read his thoughts he wants Phun as much as Phun wants him. I too would love to see Noh make the first move.I like the way you put that because submissive does not necessarily mean the person is weaker, just that they get pleasure out of seeing the partner have pleasure first…..or something like that.. yes?Being submissive is not being weaker. Noh obviously has his strengths and generally does not do anything he does not want to do. He puts up a fight so not to appear weak or easy to control. Sometimes he gives in because he is tired or the request is not that big of deal. But he rarely does anything he doesn’t want to do or doesn’t think needs to be done. We all give into our friends sometimes. Especially those we love. He does this with Earn and the dog tag because he didn’t want to make a scene. But he really did like the dogtag and was happy when Phun brought him one since Phun had taken the other one back to Earn. He does this with Yuri all the time. He lets her call the shots for when they meet what they do etc. But he has a line he will not cross because he does not want to. He lets his friends joke about him and Phun until they cross the line.Yes, I understand that about Noh’s character but I was actually asking about submissives in generalOh I see. You can be submissive and retain power and self esteem. Even in the bedroom. Sometimes letting someone else get their way shows you are self assured besides you are enjoying it as well. It takes a great deal of strength at times to let someone else get their way until you realize you are bringing them joy, and joy to yourself as well.
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