I think during time for a dinner that will be OK and just genre conversation but after that you will meet with them without me you so in this point I truth you will be OK and good luck! Other thing you can do just keep come back and spend more time every weekend to help them working in the garden or fix car some things that they will help me to answer what they thought about my partner who older than me. First time I didn`t understand but family talk together so now I know them well. water day want from my partner but more scared of my partner most of time some time so I only have one chart with my partner who’s foreign older 20 years foreign older