In my case, we had two completely different views of what marriage should be. He wanted more of a “traditional” marriage, a “Me Tarzan, You Jane” kind of thing. I, on the other hand, wanted more support and encouragement for my blossoming career. Things really got bad when I started making more money than he did. One of his rules was, “the person making the most money was the boss.” (He wanted to eat that rule later