Man who came to pastor, had attended church for 25 years, respected, leader in the church, said, "Pastor, I've got something to tell you. I've never told this to a soul, extremely difficult to tell you this now, but my wife and I have had a fight every day for the past 30 years of our marriage." Pastor taken back. Didn't know what to say to the man. Playing for time to gather thoughts, said, "Every day?" "Yes, every day." "Did you today before you came to church?" "Yes." "Well, how did it end up?" "She came crawling to me on her hands and knees." "What did she say?" "Come out from under that bed you coward and fight like a man!