When you first look at your life you have to take time and think what you are and who you are. This is a reflection of who you believe yourself to be. Think of it this way. You could ask a friend to describe you, but the only that knows who you are and what you believe to be morally correct and ethical is yourself. Your ethics and morals is something that your parents have brought you up as, a favorite saying from my late parents is “you don’t as I do you do as I say”.