I know what your saying. See I'm generally a happy person happy with myself and all but I've been with someone that makes me happy... Happy to be with them, happy when I'm sad, and thankful for the smiles. My thoughts are this... Find a man that respects you for exactly who you are. Find someone that is whole, complete and kind. A god fearing man, not perfect but not full of holes and you will find a man that makes you happy..... Easy right?