My dearest wife Yen,
Firstly just let me say that I really do miss you and want to be back with you now. There is a big hole in my life and heart now that makes me feel so incomplete ! You are everything that I have ever looked for in this life, and I am lucky to have found you in this life. If I could be with you now, I would be.
Now, Pim, for me to get organised, I need to know the plan from you. Supreeya (helpfully for a change) is asking me what I want to do about the children. I have said that I would talk to you and get back to her with what we want to do. It is now more important than ever that you start to get the answers below for me. Can you do that ?
I need to know the following :
1. How much do I need a month minimum to be living with you in Nan, allowing for housing costs, food, utilities, etc.
2. Where will we live together – what house, where.
3. What do I need to do from here to get the housing sorted ?
4. Find me things in Nan that may interest me to show me when I come again. Not places to visit, but places I may go when not with you – like a place where falangs are, so I can chat with people. There may not be any, but look anyhow.
5. What will you do working in Nan, and how quickly can you start working. Working may not be needed, but I think it would be good for you to keep your mind working and contribute to the household.
Pim, I hope to come back to Thailand very soon. I am already doing what I need to do and sorting my life out to be with you. My aim is to come back to you very quickly, to spend a month with you in Nan to see if I can live there with you – I do not see any problems, but I need to acclimatise myself with Nan and to living with you – not holidaying with you. I hope that makes sense.
Pim, I may be wrong about you, but I feel that life has not been to kind to you. You have told me about your father, and ex husband, people calling you names, trip to Turkey, and all your other problems with work. I feel that you have become very disheartened with life, that you feel that you are at the bottom of the pile and fear life will give you nothing positive. I think you have in the past few years you have just tried to find happiness anywhere you can – I say this after seeing all the messages from people on your Thaifriendly page who have not been kind to you.
BUT, Pim, you have been looking at the wrong people. You are far better than you think you are. I am a very lucky man to have you. Other people do not know what they have missed out on. I feel you have lost a lot of your confidence in life, but I hope now that you have found me that you will get your confidence back, a confidence to go forward in life, to show the world that life is good for you now. We can have a good life together, but you really need to be positive and put all the bad things from your past behind you.
Now, Pim, I need you to know and understand fully why I got angry before I left Thailand. All my partners in the past have always lied to me – my first wife (Rachael’s mother) lied about loving me because she just needed a home for her and her two children from a previous relationship. Supreeya lied about loving me and lied about our business, Meow lied about loving me. So, when I married you I was hoping that with you being someone well educated and caring that you would never lie to me. But you did lie to me Pim and that really hurt me – I felt like here was another wife who felt it OK to lie to her husband. All the Thai ladies I have ever known have lied to me. It made me feel that here we go again – another person who felt it OK to hide things or lie. I did not want that. No, I did not want to know about a man in Turkey, but to openly lie about not travelling abroad, or going to turkey for another reason was hurtful. Hiding your passport even more so ! I think that you did have a relationship with this man – I cannot see why you would have gone to Turkey if not. I do not want to know about it, it is the past, but please never lie to me again. I do not want to know about any man in your past, so please do not bring it up, unless it means you would be lying otherwise.
I will always love you Pim, but if you lie to me, as much as I love you, I would leave you as there would be no trust in the relationship. So, please Pim never lie to me again. I packed the bags only to show you what will happen if you do lie to me. I was not going to leave the room, I just need to show you the future if lies continued. I beg you not to do it again Pim, as I want you in my life until the day we die.
I would also ask Pim, that you permanently delete you Thaifriendly account, or write in it that you are now married and change looking for to ‘friends’ only. Thank you. I feel hurt by you still talking to people on it even when you know I was coming and had said you had stopped using it !
All I am looking for Pim is a quiet life with you, my beautiful wife. Simple. Happy together, always walking hand in hand until death, not caring about other people thoughts or words. I want a trip to BKK for a night or so every month or so maybe, I need go back to the UK every 6 months for maybe a week or less to see the boys and see my house and lodgers are ok. I cannot work in Thailand, but will be OK with internet, and I will help you around the house and your pupils can read to me if you need them to.
I want you forever in my life Pim. So, let us make it quickly and live together soon.
Your loving husband , Richard
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