Steps to minimize damage to your children if you cohabitate:
• Clarify your expectations and vision for the future with your partner if you plan to have a child or already have one. This can enhance your chances of remaining in a committed relationship.
• Consider tying the knot before your child reaches age three so they’ll have a stronger bond with both parents.
• Discuss parenting strategies with your partner — such as how you are going to handle conflicts that will arise with children — especially if you are blending families.
• Prepare your children carefully if you are a single parent and want your love interest to move in. Make sure they’ve met the person many times and feel comfortable with them. Reassure your children that they are a priority and that your partner will not replace their biological parent.
• Set household routines that accommodate your partner and your children. Have regular discussions and share meals together so you can check in about how household issues are going.