I have no words to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about your wife passed away.I have no words to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about your _________. I'm in shock to here this news. My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this horrible time. I love you and please give________ a big hug from us. I would love to fly/drive down and take care of your kids if you need me to. Just say the word.