i see the head commander of the Nigeria Army here today and he said i can take vacation to come and see my wife and we can plan for our marriage but i need some steps to takes so that the military of them here can allow me to come and see you on a vacation,and he said only my wife or my fiance can order me out for vacation that you have to write to there military mail box here that you want me home so if they might grant your for me request and they will let me come to over to meet you