babe if have apartment I can come every month or every 2 months and can stay about 1 week or more every time + have Christmas and New Year ...I can stay more..etc....and I must check everything but sure if sale house in France or if you get pragnent...we stay here in London all time together ;)...but I think first year I need safe money because we maibe like get married etc... and for that we need money what I must save ;)