Can you call Pang and ask her if she understands that I will not give any money to the family after we are married. I wish that Pang be a full time Mom because this is what is wrong with western society. The family unit is broken. This will not allow her to support her family as we will need money for our own growing family. I understand that a beautiful,and intelligent woman may not want such a life. Pang must understand that I will give her everything she needs, but to plan the budget for a family there must be a one time payment then all money will be for the growth,and education of our children. Could you also tell her that we won't have children right away. I would like to start having children when she is more mature when she is 29 years old there about.