This. Is exactly why. I don't owe anyone anything. Not to you. Not to my failure of a father who was never really there for me or my sister or mother who in fact never had respect for any of us, or gave a real damn what could happen to either of us, so we should automatically have respect for him why? Just cause he had a quick little five second 'job' to do, no, completely ignore what all my mother had to do. She did all the real fucking work and still does.
You don't get shit at the end of things. You don't know enough about me to make any judgment, and about the way I am. My father truly didn't deserve any of us. But hey, his five second contribution is so good and so worthy that we all should just do as he wants for the rest of our natural lives though he didn't give a crap about us from the beginning? Taking us all for granted, being controlling for most of our lives, viewing us as more of a nuisance and a waste of his precious time, cause to you that's showing 'respect' -as if it's the thing that should matter most in that situation? Respect the man who treats you like you don't matter? No. Don't say a thing about respect to me when you don't even know how it should work.