Dynamics
The behavioral pattern of the HRC appears to be an attempt to resolve highly conflicted feelings about dependency. On the one hand, the HRC feels helpless, insignificant, and totally dependent on others, especially the therapist temporarily enhance the HRCs self-esteem. On the other hand, the HRC’s dependent position is vastly confounded by a pervasive distrust and enmity toward authority figures. Consumed with need, the HRC turn for help to a figure he or she anticipates will be unwilling or unable to help. The anticipation of refusal so colors the style of requesting help that the prophecy is fulfilled, and further evidence is accumulated for the belief in the malfeasance of the potential caregiver. A vicious circle results, one that has been spinning for much of the client’s life.