In the US and Canada, many Viewing Services will take place in a funeral home, although some viewings can also be conducted in a church. In some areas of the US, the viewing may occur in the home of the deceased or that of a relative. The viewing is often held the evening before the day of the funeral, however, it can also occur immediately before the funeral service on the same day. This is not only more cost effective, it is less stressful for family members and it allows many people who cannot attend both to be present for both in one sitting.
After learning of the death, guests usually pay their respects at the home of the family members and at the funeral home during the wake. There is usually a guest book which is signed by everyone who attends so that family members may send thank you cards at a later date. Viewers attending the service have a choice of whether or not to view the body in the casket. Also, family members can decide to have the casket remain closed, and instead display photographs, prized possessions or any other items belonging to the deceased.
Friends of the deceased and other family members frequently send flowers and cards to the funeral home for the viewing service. Friends and loved ones are also welcome to stand and speak about the deceased as a way of honoring them. Thereafter, a prayer and sermon is usually given by the funeral service director or another invited guest of the clergy. Near the end of the wake service, guests are invited to view the body and say a final farewell. Guests are often followed by family members, children and the spouse. Following the wake will be funeral service. The funeral service can immediately follow the wake, or be scheduled to occur the next day, or at a later date in rare instances.
Funeral Service
us funeral customs The funeral service is usually held between 3 to 5 days following the death. The service is usually officiated by clergy and can take place in either a church or funeral home. If the service is to be held at church, the deceased is transported from the funeral home to the church in a hearse, which is part of the funeral procession. During the service, prayers, readings from the Bible or other sacred texts, hymns and songs, and words of comfort and a eulogy are given. The customs and traditions will dictate the type of music, if any, is played during the service. Near the end of the funeral service, like with the wake, guests, family and spouses are invited to view the deceased. Once the funeral service has ended, the burial will follow