Firstly host i think it means waiter in the plane...the person who give u coiffe..something to drink ...to eat...in the plan ..secondly i see that u must to tell him straight that u don't want him to come to ur house because i don't want that...tell him thay boyfriend don t accept that.,.i tell u why because ny her words i see that there is something weird...something that he want or he want to do that he don't tell u...why in the beginnig he say want to stay 1 month and in the end it is 2month or 3...and big thing that i m not comfortable for is to take the picture for every room ....why he want that...u want to do